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I remember why I stoped writing blogs, because no one seems to look at them unless it says "I'm pregnant" or kids are involved. So I guess I'll just write for me until I get to that point. So no new news on Joe which sucks, because I fear they are going to move back the date of when he needs to be in Oklahoma which means it's going to be longer until I get to see him. I am starting to feel bad about quiting work, but then again I'm not. I'm the happiest I have been in a really long time. I get to focus on me and the things that I need to get done before the time moving really does need to take place.
So recently 2 couples at church have both got engaged. 1 of which are high school sweet hearts and have been together over 2 years (they just graduated in 09) and are planning on getting married possibly in January. They have goten a lot of slack because of the fact that they are young and inexperienced in life. I think what's wrong with experienceing life together. Because I think that sounds wonderful. I am in full support of them because they have both done some true growing up together, like she has joined the church and they have done youth temple trips together and so forth. They are a wonderful couple in my opion and I have been trying to give them as much guidence and tips for wedding and the future as I possibly can.
The other one I am still unsure what to think about. She is a good friend of mine and he's just a funny guy. My friend is 22 and her now fiancee just graduated high school in 09. They've been dating just alittle over a month and are planning engaged. I don't know what to think about it. I love my friend, but honestly what kind of marriage to someone where you got hot and heavy before the real relationship had it's chance to even start? What kind of marriage will they have? I'm worried, but I feel like it's not my place to say anything about it, because I know I wouldn't listen if it was me. The funny this is she poped the question. So I guess that's what I'm dealing with now.